Saturday, January 28, 2006

to be or not to be

i am back from miami. i had a fab time and spent way to much money and met someone amazing. he lives there. i live here. i am wise enough to not entertain any foolish notions but i am confused and i am thinking and trying to figure something out. why is it i am so surprised to meet a good man? no, really, a GOOD man. wise, spiritual, loving, respectful, mature, giving. they are out there, they exist. they just haven't existed for me just yet. i don't know what would happen if i lived there, i don't dare speculate, but, sigh.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Leslie --
My 2 cents: keep in touch with him. If he's that good of a fit... well, you just never know. Flights to Miami are not that expensive, as far as I know. You could really get to know him quite well over the phone. And then spend weekends here and there together. How romantic is that! And promising.

My other 2 cents: if for some reason, because he's there and you're here, and you don't keep in touch there's still hope. one of my favorite things to think about these days -- given the principle of the oneness of humanity, if these characteristics exist in one man, there have to be more men out there with them too.

i'm so glad you met someone!
kari

ElleG77 said...

of course when it rains for me it pours....yesterday a nice doctor man asked me out.....the drought is over?yo no se.

Anonymous said...

it's feast or famine, leslie, feast or famine. yay for you and bike riding man and doctor man.

kari